#1 Subscribe to Match.com so you can see who has emailed you (it says I have a few emails but I can’t see from who..)

#2 write them back (except for the weird email that was apparently from a guy…)

#3 look at the automatic page that comes up after an email showing you “members who are similar to the one you just emailed”

#4 seeing your bipolar ex-girlfriend that tried to ruin your life as the first girl on the list

#5 seeing that 3 out of her 5 photos were taken by you – and her main profile photo is one you spent quite a bit of time photoshopping to make her look better (which she didn’t appreciate at the time…funny how things change…). Noticing she still lists her self as “single/never married” even though she was married to a Japanese air force officer in Las Vegas. Noticing she “works out 3-4 times a week” even though she probably went to the gym 3-4 times in the whole two years we were together. Noticing she lists herself as having a graduate degree even though she started and quit three different masters programs in the time I knew her.

I feel bad now, not that I saw her… but because now I’ve helped her (by providing better photos) scam some other poor sucker. My own ineptness is now helping her hook in someone again to ruin their life (at least for a while).

I suppose the silver lining would be that this is proof that the guy that was “better” than me lasted half the time I did. Although – perhaps that means he really is better – maybe he saw through her charade quicker than I did!

Ugh! This is not what I had in mind for today….